Calling Poets – Send Original Prayers

Our intention is to make this site a rich resource of prayers, and to respect intellectual property rights.  So, you might find the ‘prayer’ section rather thin at the moment.  You have the power to help.  Do you have original prayers that we might have permission to post?  If so, we’d be very grateful if you’d please contact us.

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A hundred thousand welcomes…

We are so excited that you found our website….  Our official launch was December 24, 2009, Christmas Eve. Since then, many have found and enjoyed our message of “first, do no harm.”

The Center for Non Harming Ministries is dedicated to providing resources for the non harming healer of all denominations and faith traditions in an open, friendly, ecumenical, welcoming way.

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Communications, all forms…

Ahoy thar… Care with our communications is becoming more and more crucial, as WWW brings these communications across the globe in nanoseconds, and all the world becomes one small interconnected global village. This category includes: a gentle art of nonviolent communication, stigma sensitivity, even to gender sensitivity in the use of language when referring to God. 

Communications sensitivity stretches beyond words, to music, art and iconography.  Consider the differing significance of color or rhythm across different cultures…

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Sustainability

Here you’ll find support for those who seek new and creative ways to embrace our role in shepherding the environment, recognizing and addressing climate change and its inextricable connection with social justice.

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Second Saturdays for Soupkitchens – Song Ideas

Peter Drucker, the renowned business luminary of the 1980s, has been known to say that the best hope for our country’s problems is if the leadership of the religious groups could possibly come together and find common ground.  Surely recent trends in hunger, pointing to the possibility that half of our country’s children can expect to receive food assistance some time during their childhoods, could be one area in which we can agree to come together.  Our thought: why not sing for other’s suppers?  We will be singing every second Saturday, and Godwilling, some of you will, as well. Here, for your kind consideration, a few songs.

Commodore Callahan is making their songlist available, www.commodorecallahan.com includes sheet music for Such a Crime and Rough Justice, which we discuss on this site, as well as other possibilities that can fit. 

Ask your congregation what their favorites are. Here are some old grass-roots rally songs which might spark your imagination in creating your own lists: 

  • Get Together – The Youngbloods
  • If Your Love Cannot Be Moved – Stevie Wonder
  • A Time 2 Love – Stevie Wonder
  • Heaven is Ten Zillion Light Years Away – Stevie Wonder  (YouTube)
  • Shed a Little Light – James Taylor (YouTube)

POVERTY SPECIFIC

  • Such a Crime  – Commodore Callahan  (YouTube)
  • Coat of Many Colors – Dolly Parton – (YouTube
  • Hard Times Come Again No More – Stephen Foster (YouTube
  • This Land is Your Land  - Woodie Guthrie (YouTube)
  • He Was My Brother  - Paul Simon (in memory of his college classmate, civil rights activist Andrew Goodman, who was killed by the KKK in 1964, YouTube)          

WAR SPECIFIC

  • I am a Patriot – Little Steven (Jackson Browne YouTube)
  • Lives in the Balance – Jackson Browne  (YouTube)
  • Drums of War – Jackson Browne (YouTube)
  • Bring ‘em Home  – Bruce Springsteen   (YouTube)
  • Peace Train – Cat Stevens (YouTube)
  • Silent Night 7 o’clock News  - Simon & Garfunkel (YouTube)
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Star of Bethlehem?

Have you ever wondered when Jesus was really born? It’s interesting to ponder, and you’re not alone in wondering it.  Many ancient civilizations have placed their deities’  birthdays on December 25th, because of the symbolic association with the triumph of light over darkness.  These include the deity Mithra (identified with Sol Invictus, and a Roman feast time), Tammuz the Babylonian Queen of Heaven, Horus the Egyptian Queen of Heaven, and Nimrod son of Baal. So, that choice was a logical one, even though it doesn’t match the story. The story has shepherds with their flocks outdoors by night. Shepherds wouldn’t be sleeping outside with their flocks by night in the dead of winter – brrr! – that just isn’t the custom, even today! But it is certainly the custom of shepherds, in other seasons. So the Bible itself gives us a clue that the season of Christmas is a symbolic one, and not a literal one. The bible gives us other clues as well.

We know Jesus was born on or before 4BC, because that’s when the first king Herod died [[OR in 6AD when the Census of Quirinius was undertaken]]. These are conflicting dates.

At Jesus’ actual birth, something must have been going on in the heavens that would have been significant enough to capture the three magi’s attention and set them on their way. One researcher, astronomer Michael Molnar, has some very interesting evidence pointing to astronomical conjunctions that astrologers of the time would have taken as a sign of a king, on April 17th of 2010.  He believes this was enough to set the magi on their way to the Jewish capital: Jerusalem. There, they would have been advised that Jewish prophesy said the Messiah would be born in Bethlehem.  What could it have been, and when?

To Molnar, the star was really a planet: Jupiter. It  was in the “house” of the astrological sign of Aries, the Ram.  This theory works better than a big comet or solar eclipse, which everyone would have noticed.  The Jewish people at the time didn’t believe in, or practice, astrology, but it was practiced in Persia, which would  explain why Herod didn’t know of the birth but the magi did.  Molnar further writes, on his website, that: “Firmicus Maternus, an astrologer of Constantine the Great’s time in AD 334, described the conditions I found to be those for a world ruler with a divine and immortal nature. We know that Firmicus converted to Christianity close to when he wrote his Mathesis on astrology.”  Molnar argues, in Star of Bethlehem: The Legacy of the Magi, argues that he was referring to his new found faith in Jesus Christ[1].

look at the sky

look at the sky

If Molnar is right, then April 17th might just be Jesus’ actual birthday.  Considering that  December 25th was an ancient pagan feast for Mithras, as well as the birthday of Tammuz, Horus, Nimrod and others,  why not continue to celebrate on December 25th (since it’s near the winter solstice, as the symbolic triumph of light over darkness), but add April 17th as a true likely birthday, as well?

We can even take his logic further, to discover information about the annunciation. Counting backwards nine months, August 17th would be a likely day for the annunciation to Mary that she would become Theokotos, (or God bearer). This is traditionally celebrated around the vernal equinox, which is correct and beautiful, from a symbolic standpoint but wouldn’t work well if Mary had been pregnant nine months and Jesus had been born in Spring.
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[1]Molnar, Michael. Star of Bethlehem: The Legacy of the Magi. pp101-109.

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Step Back from Schadenfreude

“Oh how the mighty have fallen” is the essence of Schadenfreude — the delight we can all take in seeing someone taken down a notch.

The problem with Schadenfreude, though, is where it originates… it’s not from anything good and lovely, but from a darker side of our selves. If we look at the Hebrew term for the devil – HaSatan – we find it means the accuser.  So remember that when setting people up and delighting in knocking them down, this is not of God.  What’s of God?

In a fallen athlete, remembering the physical heights to which the person has risen, and understanding the humanity and frailty which we all have in common.

In a fallen leader, remember the ideals they espoused in one area are not untrue because the leader turned out to be less than a paragon of virtue in another area.  

Consider how unfair it is to the people we put up on a pedestal,   to expect them to be God?  Remember one of the ten commandments… No other God but God.

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Celebrating Life

Here is Jan, whom we had the honor to meet this weekend in Calistoga. Jan is 77, and he is Dutch. He has survived cancer, and his response is to spread joy, with his little black dog, who seemed very content to be along for the ride. If you look closely you’ll see a little ‘cancer sucks’ pin somewhere on his fanciful bike.

“They told me to go fly a kite” he jokes, pointing at the butterfly kite he has added, ”so I did.”

It takes courage and heart to smile in the face of adversity, to choose to spread joy and love instead of cursing God and spreading vitriol. We never would have known Jan’s motivation if we hadn’t asked him about it. Jan risks being written off as so many in California are, but he seemed pretty sane to us.

Have any of our readers seen that odd old film, Harold and Maude?  Maude had clearly been through some adversity, too, and probably made a similar choice somewhere along the path.

the dog in the back of the bike

It takes courage and conviction to celebrate life with a smile and choose to spread happiness. What a great choice!

Besides the film Harold and Maude, Jan’s story brings to mind a few Psalms, such as Psalm 3096-98, 136. What does it bring to mind, for you?

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Church and state… how do we navigate?

Who needs God? Without God, can a secular society find its way towards any right relationships, between self and others, employers, our earth and seas and skies? Is there a third way, between the totalitarianism of the radical secular extremes and the totalitarianism at the radical religious extremes?  At nonharming.com, we certainly hope so.

While Church and state should be separate so that all may have their freedom, it sometimes feels that, to anyone whose viewpoint allows for a transcendent aspect outside the domain of science, there is almost a dismissive shunning. Has this, perhaps, gone slightly too far, towards worship of the secular, where all that is ‘of God’ must be stricken as anathema? This is what Chris Hedges wonders, in his little book When Atheism Becomes Religion.

Our webmaster is the songwriter of the awareness-raising song Such a Crime. This song, performed by the band Commodore Callahan, was meant to raise awareness about the criminalization of poverty and the rising tide of inequality. The thought was to simply write a ballad, a story of how one person with pretty inarguably good credentials was affected. That person? A disabled, Vietnam-era veteran, who was a minister, to boot.  He was swept up in the criminal legal system when the police swept through a homeless shelter looking for outstanding warrants. His warrant? Criminal vagrancy (that is, homelessness). The city? Washington, the town responsible for his disability. This story was inspired by an op-ed piece in the New York Times by Barbara Ehrenreich.

What’s wrong with the song? We are told (off the record) by administrators in the San Francisco public school system, the song is too “Christian” to be appropriate for school children, because the subject of the song happens to be a minister.

In this ‘damned if you do, damned if you don’t’ situation. Commodore Callahan will be producing a vanilla version [words say 'that man Al' instead of 'our reverend' for example], but by not telling the whole story of this individual the song is less powerful, and the case against the criminalization of poverty is also weakened.   Check out the youTube channel and judge the song for yourself…  and if you are a famous country singer and would like to help us out, please do contact Commodore Callahan, because the band needs your voice for the vanilla version!

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Making the Case for God, Actually…

As a minister, are you ever asked tough questions about whether God exists? The question most often asked, of course, is the reconciliation of a good God with all the clearly unjust suffering in the world.  

Yes, God is not a puppeteer, and God gave us free choices. Our sinful and hateful choices lead to institutionalized sin in which the innocent continue to suffer, and we are called to put this to right.  God understands and weeps with the suffering, and when we turn to God in our suffering, God can comfort.  But sometimes this is not enough of an answer. especially at a time of crisis.

We all struggle and words can fail, so we thought we’d add a few of our favorite resources to point people to, in case that is of use to you. Beware of pointing the casual reader to Moltman or Polanyi, though. Those are for you…

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Expanding the Meaning of ‘take back the night’

Safer on the Streets

The ‘take back the night’ rallying cry began because the streets didn’t feel safe to walk in, at night. People wanted to be able to be out, in their cities, without fearing for their very lives. It has expanded in some beautiful ways, as people take the term to mean freedom from fear in the night, regardless of whether it is indoors in the home, or out on the streets. 

Safer from Sexual Violence

Women report three times higher fear than men because of the lived experience of physical and sexual violence in women[1].  According to the bawar.com website: 1 in 6 women and 1 in 33 men will be a victim of sexual assault in their lifetime; college age women are 4 times more likely to be sexually assaulted;  more statistics are on their website at www.baywar.org.

…and Ending Domestic Violence at Home 

Have you noticed how ‘take back the night’ is evolving, to one surrounding any sort of violence? One CampusMovieFest student film, “There is No Such Thing as a Love Tap” highlights the fact of the slogan now being used in a campaign to end domestic violence.

                                          

Tracing the Origins of Take Back The Night

The term ‘take back the night’ was heard as a rallying cry as far back as 1975, when Philadelphia’s streets were growing unsafe, and a young microbiologist named Susan Speeth was the victim of a random stabbing murder, prompting many to march and yes,  ’take back the night.’

[1] Western Criminology Review 4(3), 203 – 214 (2003)http://wcr.sonoma.edu/v4n3/Manuscripts/scott.pdf 

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Visionary Voices

The Rev. Dr. James Keck traveled to the Bay Area in April to become the first recipient of a ‘Visionary Voices’ award, given him by The Rev. Dr. Penny Nixon at The Congregational Church of San Mateo.

Speaking at a Saturday lecture prior to the event, he hailed what he called the ‘beauty of progressive Christianity’ which he sees as being typified by four key cornerstone points. These are: love trumps doctrine (you’re considered a fanatic if you’d kill for doctrine); openness to science and the verdicts of modern knowledge; the equality of souls; and a surprising and vigorous embrace of the concept of freedom of the individual conscience.    

 
Visionary Voices Awardee, 2010

The Rev. Dr. James Keck

Keck also spent time talking about worldwide religious trends. Even though it may not feel that way to the particular group which is experiencing shrinking attendance, Christianity is rising in the South and Asia, and now, Keck says, the most common Christian in the world is a nineteen year old Brasilian woman. While the secularization taking place in Western Europe is “stunning” says Keck, he reminded the listeners that 80% of Americans self-define as Christian, 16% do not self-define religiously, and 4% remain for every other religion in America.   He also told the crowd that America offers a gentle ”middle way,” reminding listeners of the experience of the Methodist movement: at one time more people heard Methodist sermons than received U.S. mail (!).  

Keck, among other scholars, sees us in an “emergence” – the latest of a number of five-hundred year trends (first came the Jesus movement, then the fall of Rome, the schism, Protestantism, and the present emergence). He reassured that there are many comonalities, even while polarities are more prominent in the conflict narratives that the news media prefer. Churches learn the language of separation, he said, out of a need to ‘market themselves’ in niches, but what people really need to be worried about is economic downturns, when humans become xenophobic  and lash out.  A reassuring message especially in a moment when headlines about Christianity include “Pentecostal Head Retracts Name from Civility Covenant.”   Let’s hope that’s just “language of separation” market positioning, and the people in the pews are more aligned with the beautiful set of core values named by Rev. Dr. Keck  last weekeknd.

To learn more about The Visionary Voices Award, or to suggest potential future nominees, contact The Rev. Dr. Penny Nixon at The Congregational Church of San Mateo.

-report filed by your webmaster, April 23, 2010

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Beauty from Ashes

We found a community labyrinth (this one was in Calistoga) and noticed how beautiful the placement of rocks made this empty lot.

Walking a labyrinth is a threefold process. First you leave your worldly concerns behind as you move toward the divine. Notice how as you step through the maze, you are sometimes taken further away from your goal, even as you are making progress.  Second, as you have arrived, you have contemplation time. Third, you take the divine back towards your life again.

We will be adding designs for labyrinths soon.

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